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Q: I am little embarrassed even to ask a question like this, but here it goes. I met a great guy at a cocktail reception last week, and we really seemed to hit it off. I didn’t hear from him again until yesterday, when he sent me three dozen beautiful red long-stem roses for Valentine’s Day. A little forward, I suppose, but I must admit that I am thrilled with them. My question is whether the fact that I happen to be a House staffer means I cannot keep the flowers. Please say I can keep them. They are stunning, and I really don’t want to mess this up.
A: Your question is an excellent reminder of the breadth of the House gift rule. The House gift rule can essentially be stated in two words: no gifts. As written, the rule really is that broad. According to the House Ethics Committee, you may not accept anything of value from anyone — whether in your personal life or official life — unless acceptance is allowed by one of the exceptions to the gift rule.
So, the exceptions are the key. Anytime you receive anything from anyone, an alarm bell should go off and you should consider whether there is an exception that allows you to accept it. Here, you have heard the alarm bell. That’s the good news. The bad news is that it is difficult to find an exception that would apply.
There is one exception that permits you to accept gifts that are below a certain value, so long as the donor is not a registered lobbyist or foreign agent. However, the limit is $50. Those of us who have recently been in the market for long-stem roses for their valentine know that the price for three dozen roses almost certainly exceeds this limit.
Another exception covers gifts given on the basis of personal friendship. Beware, however, that this exception has long had a reputation for being one of the most misunderstood of all the gift rule exceptions. This is because it does not mean simply that you may accept a gift from anyone whom you call a friend. Rather, the gift rule requires that you consider the circumstances in which the gift was offered, and it lists three factors that merit particular consideration.
One factor is whether, to your actual knowledge, the donor personally paid for the gift or instead sought a tax deduction or business reimbursement. I sure hope this factor is on your side here. You do not mention having any actual knowledge that your suitor did not pay for the flowers himself. But I suspect that if you had such knowledge, you might not have called him a “great guy.” So, chalk this factor up for you.
A second factor is whether, to your actual knowledge, the donor gave the same or similar gifts to other staffers or Members. Again, if you had knowledge of him showering other staffers with Valentine’s Day gifts at the same time as he sent yours, I suspect that you would have chosen a more colorful description for him than “great guy.” So this appears to be in your favor as well.